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Sunday, 17 April 2016

CHILD BEGGING SHOULD BE TREATED AS SYNDROME AND NOT SYMPATHY

STOP CHILD BEGGING
Today I met this small friend and his sister who walked upto me when I was having a coffee at a tea stall, instead of asking for money he poked me hard with steel utensil in which he already had some coins of 1 and 2 rupees.


As a typical human being I looked at the kid with sympathy and asked “Dude are you dumb” to which he first nodded his head to convince me and when asked twice he nodded saying no. Out of curiosity I asked him so why dint you speak up and ask for money instead of beating me with the utensil, he had no answer for it. I knew it was his strategy of acting dumb to gain money :)  

As being a founder of YOUNGSUTRA, I always Empower Youth by engaging, enlightening & empowering them through various programs which helps bring them back to self-reliance. So asked him do you go the School? on which he said no ! I asked him why so he said due to “economical condition”. Going further I asked how much you earn in a day, he said around 100-150 Rupees and it is sufficient for us to eat for the day.

My sympathy for that kid was on a peak and out of concern I asked where are you guys from and where do you live? He said “we are from Indapur & live at Pune station”. I asked what about family, he said no family, only me and my sister.

As I don’t believe in spoiling the youngsters by encouraging them to beg or stay low on self-esteem, I offered him shelter & scholarship for him and his sister’s study. Upon which he said he doesn’t want to study and happy to beg.

It came as a shocker for me as I was expecting a happy and exciting reply, I asked him why don’t you want to study and why do you want to beg. He had no answer but the silence spoke a lot about the BEGGING SYNDROME which we as a society encouraging by offering them 1-2 rupee and getting off of our responsibilities.

We never think what impact that 1-2 rupee makes on that child? It encourages and motivates them not to study and get used to easy money. I felt guilty and ashamed of myself of looking at the kid, that what generation are we producing as a country or being responsible citizens.

One side we speak about empowerment of youth, skill development and child begging free India and on the other hand we encourage them by offering money than a career or working on bringing them back to self-reliance.

What scares me is India has the largest child population in the world i.e. almost 19% of the world’s child population. Millions of children exist below poverty line and are malnourished, many of them die and many of them become victims of various crimes even though constitution of India expresses concern for upbringing of children in safe, secure and healthy manner through various provisions in the constitution.

My question is where are those provisions and whom are they working for????? I guess the constitution is been written for poor kids like Siddharth Mallya who run away with Rs. 7000 crore of begging from banks and now made banks beg.... Mala mal Mallya & Bhagam bhag Banks !! 

Wish 10% of that amount would have been spent on these kids, atleast we would have uplifted millions of kids out of poverty line or begging syndrome. 

What I could understand from these kids is many children spend their childhood begging either due to poverty, under threat or due to getting used to easy money. The children involved in begging can be divided in three broad groups: boys, girls and children with mothers. The children who beg arrive from nearby rural areas in small groups in the morning and leave in the evening. They have family and peer acceptability, encouragement and inspiration for begging, which is the biggest worry I feel.

Some of them do not seem destitute but most are genuinely very poor. They are seen mostly in the market, near temples and railway station. Some of them have gone to school but left due to learning difficulties or fights with others. Most are not going to school and those who are going are unable to read.

The kid said they earn 20 to 100 rupees everyday by begging. Most give the money to mother, elderly siblings who will make food for them or the BEGGAR MAFIA. Mostly Children are not habituated to begging and can be weaned away by not offering them money. We as a society & Government must help these children by sending them to school and helping their families to cope with extreme poverty as well as criminal gangs.

We as responsible citizens should treat CHILD BEGGING as a SYNDROME and not SYMPATHY, stop offering or stop people from giving money. If you really want to do something please empower and encourage them to study through donating NGO’s who rehabilitate these kids to self-reliance or by supporting organizations who fight with government for their betterment.

If you come across any such kid who is willing to study and not beg, please get in touch with us through our website www.youngstura.com. We’ll ensure the kid is encouraged & empowered to do well in life.

Help us fight with this syndrome and bring back the kids to self-reliance by empowering them with appropriate aid.  

Be responsible, Act responsible. 

Blog written by : Tushar Kadam

www.youngsutra.com

Thursday, 14 April 2016

!! TRP HUNGRY MEDIA !!
Suicide is to be believed as an extreme form of depression and some also says it is an act done by cowards who can't fight back. I have also heard many saying Suicide is an answer to the pain and sufferings one goes through, in other words GIVING UP.
However our very concerned MEDIA has changed all the definitions and reasons behind it. For them If you are a celebrity it is a TRP game, if you are a farmer its a political blame game and if you are poor or a common man then it is of no interest to the MEDIA !!
It is a very simple equation to understand, neither you can earn TRP for them nor can help them blackmail others and earn money !!
MEDIA has made stars out of ASS HOLES like KANHAIYA LAL who practices his freedom of speech against his own country, Rahul Gandhi who is a FULL OF SHIT CARTOON POLITICIAN who supports every bastard who is speaking against India, KEJARIWAL who has used people like Ana Hajare and the sentiments of every Indian for his personal agenda of becoming a Politician rather a CM and ASADUDDIN OWAISI who is on a verge of making another ISIS working against INDIA by eating India's food and living on INDIAN SOIL.
They will cover an incident where a COW of a politician is missing however will not cover if a daughter of a poor man is been raped. They will run breaking news out of nothing but will not focus on organisation like NAAM working to stop many such suicides because of government's failure to act proactively and address the real concerns affecting and provoking them to finish their lives.
My sympathy and condolences are with Pratyusha Banerjii and her family however there are many such Pratusha's who need attention before they take such steps. It is not necessary one has to be a celebrity to get all the attention and I don't know when would this TRP Hungry Media will actually practice the ethics and principals of being an HONEST MEDIA.
RIP Pratyusha how
ever I would have appreciated if you would have spoken to the same media about why you want to take such extreme step, who is now acting soOO concerned about you after your death. Because it will inspire every struggler, every individual who has failed or cheated in LOVE, every sufferer who is trying to fight back either with medical or physiological condition, to go and suicide rather not GIVING UP and FIGHTING BACK.
You were an inspiration to many youngsters, at such a young age you made all of us proud and many girls would want to be like you however I am worried hope they don't take your inspiration of giving up at a stage where they feel helpless and commit suicide.
Not only Pratushya we all are an inspiration or a reason for someone or the other who look up to you, please don't give up on life as you might inspire the same who look upto you !!
BE RESPONSIBLE, ACT RESPONSIBLE.... SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER TO ANY PROBLEM !!